The man is unable to comprehend the source of her emotional unavailability and questions why she is running away. The woman's vacant appearance and taken soul imply a sense of emotional detachment, likely resulting from past hurt. The opening lines suggest that the man can only physically hold her temporarily, as her soul is distant and inaccessible. The song's title itself suggests that the man cannot fully possess her, indicating an understanding of the woman's emotional unavailability. The song is about a man who is deeply in love with a woman who is emotionally unavailable due to past trauma and heartbreak. The lyrics suggest that no matter the love or support offered, healing is a personal and ongoing journey. 'He Can Only Hold Her' depicts the struggle of maintaining a relationship with someone who is emotionally unavailable due to past trauma.
